Sometimes it is wise to wander without any specific destination in mind. It is an opportunity to clear the cobwebs, open the pores, breathe deeply, and release attachments. When you do this, notice the amazing opportunities that appear!
Temptation is a perversely attractive energy that appears persistently in your life until it has been resolved or healed. If you give in to temptation, please remember to avoid guilt and shame, as those energies will just fester and create all kinds of negative internal side-effects. Instead, take advantage of the power of compassion and forgiveness. Recognize your humanity, and lovingly accept your foibles. Let self-compassion and self-forgiveness support your growth. After all, the fastest way to heal is to compassionately forgive yourself.
Take the time to get to know your shadow, and to engage the tools of uncovering, illuminating, healing and integrating. You’ll soon realize that your shadow has many gifts and talents that you can begin to bring more fully into your life. And soon enough, you’ll come to think of your shadow as a friend.
The choice between taking responsibility and making excuses is ultimately a choice between empowerment and stagnation. By choosing to take responsibility, you can open yourself up to growth, learning, and the possibility of creating a life that aligns with your deepest values and aspirations. I invite you to let excuses be a thing of the past and choose instead to take full responsibility for every aspect of your life.
Begin counting your blessings today. Start with the big ones, but don’t stop there. Look for the subtle gifts. And when you’re ready, challenge yourself to find at least one hidden blessing within the difficult circumstances of your life. You might be surprised by what you discover. The more you appreciate, the more life gives you to appreciate.